What if something goes wrong?

In our sacred container, we don’t build from fear, we build from frequency. You’re aligning every part of yourself with the knowing that your dream birth is already yours.

That doesn’t mean we ignore logistics or skip preparation. It means we prepare from embodiment, not from anxiety. You walk through your birth plan, your environment, your support team, your sensations, not because you’re preparing for something to go wrong, but because you’re remembering what’s already right.

Home birth is not about blind trust.
It’s about conscious trust that's built on preparation, communication, and mind, body, soul alignment. When your nervous system is regulated and your energy field is coherent, you become the safest place in the room. That’s what this work is really about. Not just “trusting birth,” but becoming the embodiment of trust.

From that place, decisions flow clearly. Your intuition speaks louder. You and your birth team move in sync. And every potential “what if” becomes an opportunity to stay anchored in the knowing: “I am protected, I am guided, and this birth is already unfolding exactly as it was meant to.”

I can't handle the pain of birth, what if I need an epidural?

I get it. I had those same thoughts before I learned what undisturbed labor actually feels like. Hospital pain is completely different, it’s often amplified by fluorescent lights, interruptions, and adrenaline. At home, you’re not fighting those stressors. You’re in rhythm, you can move freely, eat, rest, shower, moan, sway, and use every comfort measure available. Home birth doesn’t mean “no support”; it means different support like warmth, touch, water, breath, and most importantly presence. Pain becomes communication, not punishment. And you always get to decide what feels right for you in every moment.

Is it really safe for my baby to be birthed at home?

Safety is one of your deepest motherly instincts, it’s what drives every decision. The truth is this: for healthy, low-risk pregnancies with a qualified supportive birth team, planned home birth has outcomes comparable, (read the research here for yourself), to hospital birth — and often better postpartum recovery and breastfeeding outcomes. But statistics aside, safety is also emotional and spiritual. Feeling respected, seen, and calm in birth directly impacts how your body functions. When your nervous system is at peace, your hormones flow as nature designed. A safe baby starts with a safe mother. Period.

What if my partner or family isn't on board?

Home birth isn't about convincing anyone. Everyone you love has their own timeline of awakening, their own nervous system, their own story of what “safe” means. You can honor that, and still honor your truth. Start with honest communication, not defense.
Express what draws you to home birth, what you’re doing to prepare, what safety actually looks like when you lead your birth.

Do you work in person or only online?

I occasionally hold in person work shops for groups of moms. (Inquire if interested at aleka@birthonpurpose.com). Other than that all sessions/packages/free consults are held over the phone - audio only, with text available between booked sessions.

What if I miss a call?

48-hour cancellation policy: Missed or canceled appointments within this window are non-refundable. Sessions may be rescheduled within your package timeframe. Your commitment honors your transformation.

How fast will I see results?

This is unique to each Mom, but most clients at Birth On Purpose feel results quickly (within the first two weeks) because of my Quantum Mind Body Therapy TM approach.

How is this different from traditional therapy?

I am a leader of a new timeline and my work expresses that. While traditional therapy focuses on step by step, pressure, changing habits and willpower which can provide some changes over lengths of time. We simply focus on embodiment from the very beginning, working directly with energy at the quantum level, shifting results by shifting awareness, rewiring your brain, body, and beliefs instantaneously through neuroscience and bioenergetics, which creates real transformation and alignment rapidly with ease.